"Kisses her husband's feet before sleep": what Kim Jong-un's wife is known for and why the people adore her. 👇

 The woman next to Kim Jong-un: who is Ri Sol-ju and why are there so many secrets around her

Ri Sol Ju, the first lady of North Korea, has been a subject of intense interest for years, both among international media and observers of political life in Pyongyang. The reason is simple: she is one of the closest figures to Kim Jong Un, yet surprisingly little is known about her life.

Since she began appearing in public alongside the North Korean leader in 2012, Ri Sol Ju has become the subject of constant commentary, speculation and analysis. Young, elegant and reserved, she quickly attracted the attention of the world's media. Despite her public appearances, however, her personality remains shrouded in mystery.

Little-known facts about her early life

Ri Sol-ju's biography is full of ambiguities. Different sources give different information about her age, origin, and family. According to some data, she was born on September 28, 1989 in the city of Chongjin, North Hamgyong Province. Other publications indicate a wider period of birth - between 1985 and 1989, claiming that she grew up in Pyongyang.

There is also no fully confirmed information about her family. It is often mentioned in the public domain that her father is a teacher and her mother is a doctor. However, South Korean sources suggest that Ri Sol-ju may come from a more influential family connected to the ruling circles in North Korea.

Education in an elite environment

Lee Sol-ju is believed to have graduated from Geumseong Art School, a prestigious school that typically caters to children from privileged families. Even as a student, she impressed with her style, confidence, and taste for finer things.

According to various publications, Ri Sol-ju was distinguished by her modern clothing and accessories, which were unusual for most North Korean women. It is said that even then she wore expensive watches, preferred clothes that were considered more daring for the time, and was not afraid to show off her higher social status.

This builds her image as a woman who, even before her marriage to Kim Jong-un, had self-confidence, style, and presence.

How he met Kim Jong-un

The exact way in which Ri Sol-ju and Kim Jong-un met remains unknown. There are various versions surrounding their relationship, but none have been officially confirmed.

According to some South Korean media, Ri Sol-ju was associated with musical groups and cultural ensembles that performed for the North Korean elite. It is alleged that she participated as a singer or musician in state performing groups and that it was there that she could have been noticed by the future leader.                                                                                                                                                              Other versions suggest that their marriage was arranged with the approval of Kim Jong-un's father, Kim Jong-il. According to political observers, in such ruling families, the choice of a spouse is rarely just a personal matter. It also has symbolic, political, and dynastic significance.

Her name also raises questions

There is speculation that Ri Sol-ju may have had a different name before her marriage. Such claims are difficult to verify, but are often mentioned in analyses of the North Korean elite.

In Korean tradition, changing a name after a significant life milestone is not entirely unusual. However, in this case, some sources suggest that the changes may have been made not only out of custom, but also to limit access to information about her past.

According to South Korean political commentators, the control over the personal data of people close to the Kim family is extremely strict. It is believed that not only Ri Sol-ju herself, but also her relatives live under increased surveillance to prevent information leaks.

Life under constant control

Being the wife of a North Korean leader doesn't just mean luxury and privilege. According to various media reports, this role also comes with many restrictions.

Ri Sol-ju is said to have a tightly regulated public image, limited contacts and carefully controlled appearances. In a country like North Korea, where information about the ruling family is heavily guarded, such claims sound entirely possible, though they are difficult to independently prove.

Her appearances alongside Kim Jong-un are always carefully chosen. She appears at concerts, ceremonial events, diplomatic meetings, and official ceremonies, but she never goes beyond the role assigned to her by state propaganda.

Controversial claims surrounding her personal life

Some publications have alleged that before her marriage, Ri Sol-ju underwent special training for her life as the wife of the North Korean leader, describing various rules related to behavior, etiquette, and adherence to traditions.

These stories often sound sensational and should be taken with caution because North Korea is one of the most closed countries in the world. Many of the details about the Kim family's private lives come from anonymous sources, South Korean media or political analysts, rather than from official documents.

Among the most commented claims is that after her marriage, Lee Sol-ju ceased her artistic public appearances, and recordings of her earlier performances were removed from the public domain. Such stories fit into the notion of strict control over the first lady's image, but again remain difficult to verify.

Mother of the heirs of the dynasty

Ri Sol-ju and Kim Jong-un are believed to have three children. The most commonly reported child is a boy born around 2010. The second child is their daughter, Kim Ju-ae, who has increasingly appeared alongside her father at official events in recent years.

She has attracted international attention because her appearance next to Kim Jong-un has raised questions about whether she is being groomed for a prominent future role. Even less is known about the family's third child - it is believed that he was born around 2017, but his gender has not been publicly confirmed.

In North Korea, the private lives of the ruling family are kept as a state secret. That's why even information about the leader's children appears rarely, in moderation, and usually only when the regime has a reason to reveal it.

Ri Sol-ju has no official power, but he has influence.

Formally, Ri Sol-ju does not hold any important government position. She does not lead an institution, does not hold any official political position, and does not make any independent political statements.

However, many analysts believe that her presence next to Kim Jong-un is important. She contributes to building a softer, more family-like and human image of the North Korean leader. When the two appear together, he seems less distant and closer to the image of a family man.

At the same time, her influence is often compared to that of Kim Jong-un's sister, Kim Yo-jong. Unlike Ri Sol-ju, the leader's sister has a far more visible political role and is considered one of the most influential women in the North Korean regime.

The woman who changed the style of North Korean women

One of the most interesting changes associated with Ri Sol Ju is the attitude towards the appearance of women in North Korea. After she began to appear in public with more modern clothes, elegant bags, heels and a more relaxed style, there was a gradual relaxation of the strict norms.

Observers say her public image has helped North Korean women gain a little more freedom in their clothing. There is talk of greater acceptance of pants, heels, and more modern hairstyles. Some publications claim that even cycling by women, which was previously restricted, has become more acceptable.

Of course, this doesn't mean Western-style fashion freedom. North Korea remains a country with strict rules about appearance and public behavior. But Ri Sol-ju is definitely becoming a kind of reference point for a more modern, if still restrained, feminine style.

A special place in the regime's public image

Ri Sol-ju has another curious feature: on some occasions, she appears without the obligatory pin with the portrait of the leaders of the Kim dynasty, which many North Koreans wear on their lapels. This is interpreted as a sign of her special status.

Her every public appearance is closely watched—how she dresses, where she sits, how she carries herself, whether she speaks, whether she smiles, whether she stands next to her husband or remains in the background. In a country where symbols are extremely important, even small details can be perceived as a message.

Why do people like her?

Despite the mystery surrounding her, Ri Sol-ju is often portrayed as an elegant, reserved, and dignified first lady. She doesn't speak much in public, doesn't overtly display power, but her presence is strong enough to be noticed.

To ordinary North Koreans, she probably seems like a symbol of prosperity, family, and a softer image of power. To the outside world, she is one of the few figures through whom one can glimpse into the otherwise closed circle around Kim Jong-un.

Ri Sol-ju remains an enigma—a woman much talked about but little known. That's what makes her so interesting. She is simultaneously first lady, mother, style icon, and part of the most secretive ruling family in the world.

Despite all the secrets surrounding her, one thing is clear: her role next to Kim Jong-un is not just decorative. She helps build the leader's public image, influences the image of the modern North Korean woman, and remains one of the most talked-about figures in North Korea.

The article is for informational purposes only. Some of the information about Ri Sol-ju's personal life is based on media reports, analysis, and claims from external sources, as official information from North Korea is limited and difficult to verify. The completeness and exhaustiveness of the information is not guaranteed.